No, but I don’t believe I saw the issue until the 6.13.x kernels either

What kernel version? I had similar issues on similar hardware. These have gone away in more recent kernels though.

It really only makes sense to me when your distro is older or doesn’t have the software you want. I fully prefer native packages too, though, but I use Flatpak on phone.

I do this, but the other direction. My friends/family have access to a guest Nextcloud account which is read-only. That lets them download everything from me.