Ashley

Then it’s literally down to things like statistics, rate limiting certain ip addresses if one tries to access completely different pages at the same time, etc. All of those can be worked around easily

Couple things:

Maybe opnsense over pfsense, pfsense people aren’t nice Proxmox is great but consider running docker in an lxc container as well

Debian is a good option but I’d actually recommend Fedora. It’s been very stable for me.

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Solaar can do this